So I haven't been nearly as prolific on here as I was hoping. However my words have been put to very good use lately - 37, 000 of them are marching toward a population of penguins, and another few thousand are dealing with childhood nightmares.
So at least I've been working (and playing) with them.
But there's one little phrase that keeps cropping up lately that's really beginning to bother me.
It's incredibly passive aggressive. I find it immediately makes me want to break out into pure aggression. It's so condescending, patronizing - "Well, that's ok, you please yourself, you obviously know what you're doing..."
This not only implies that you're an idiot, but a selfish, unthinking idiot.
Why? Why should simple pleasures be denied? Like, say, carrying a bag a different way from the other person who wants to tell you how to do it. Simple. Very, very simple.
There is nothing more likely to make you start acting like a child than being treated like one. And when you feel like you're being shoved back into that tiny chair, that tiny corner, you want to break that barrier and dip that person's pigtails in ink or hit them over the head with a text book.